Tuesday, December 17, 2013

December update

News flash! Sauntering to Santiago is now available in paperback, for those of you who don't have an e-reader. Check it out here.
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I suppose my next pilgrimage has already started, as I've left the Seattle area and come back to Iowa for the winter and early spring.

Now, for those who might argue that leaving the maritime climate in Seattle for the frigid winter of the upper Midwest would paint a rather unflattering picture of my mental capacities and psychological condition, I can only say in my defense that there is a method to my madness. The cost of living here is relatively cheap, and saving as much as possible for the next "attempt at the summit" - living in Spain - is very high on my list of priorities. I'm taking a course in editing so that I will have a better chance of finding freelance editing and writing jobs to supplement my income as an English tutor in Granada when I complete the pilgrimage to Rome. In the remaining time, I'm in the edit and rewrite phase of my first novel, Five Seasons of Crystal (working title). And, I think I've already mentioned that Lynn Bahrych, a woman I met at a writers' conference, and I are working feverishly on a speculative screenplay. Here's the log line:

Forbidden love, a family curse, and a clever killer converge in 1984 Cabo San Lucas.

Pretty dramatic, no? It's rich with mystic symbolism and dramatizes the struggle between maintaining culture and economic advancement with the massive infusion of tourist dollars that began during the mid 80's in this once-idyllic but poor fishing village at the tip of Baja California.

Along with trying to find some freelance writing work, getting my novel ready for a professional editor, and the screenplay, I'm looking for a short-term PM contract so that I can put a little more money in the bank before I leave for Europe in May. I've decided to go to a screenwriting conference in London May 9-11, and then fly from there to Barcelona, where I'll begin the trek to Rome, documenting anything interesting on this blog site and/or my personal web site, DemarSouthard.com.

My backpack is ready, my boots are ready, I'm more than ready. 

May seems a long time away.

Friday, November 8, 2013

As Usual - Big Changes

I'm back. I feel like I owe you an apology because I've been gone so long without any explanation. 

So here's what's been going on since we last talked:

I was laid off from Amazon.com last month. The job just wasn't a good fit for my education and talents. It happens, especially in the contracting world.

I had big plans of working until Spring, 2015, then returning to Spain for another pilgrimage - Barcelona to Rome - and upon completion of that, settling again in Granada with enough money to tide me over while I looked for enough English students to pay the bills.

I think it was someone in The Godfather (great movies - all three) who said, "Ain't gonna happen."

But let me clarify. What's not gonna happen is the money part. Other things are coming together. I will return to Spain, but earlier than I had planned. I will make the pilgrimage to Rome, hopefully with the help of people who will pledge to support my efforts through Kickstarter.com to make the journey and write another book. Then I will return to the city I love, Granada, to continue my new career as a proofreader, editor, writer, and English teacher.

Because I can work as an editor, proofreader, and writer with nothing but my notebook computer and an internet connection, I feel confident that this time it's going to work. I'll be figuring out the self-promotion ins and outs of Facebook, Twitter, Google+, and LinkedIn, and will be building and promoting my own business on EnglishWebEditing.com. (As of this date, still an unpublished web site.) I've got a lot to learn, but I'm seeing the plan gel in front of my eyes. I'm fairly certain God has been telling me that spending more time in the project management field was keeping from what He has in store for me, doing something that I much prefer and which gives me much more personal satisfaction. If you've read the blog thus far, or have purchased the memoir of my walk on the Camino de Santiago, Sauntering to Santiago, you know that I've been given signs and miracles to direct my path. I thought I was "building my arc," to prepare for what God had in store for me and enable me to safely make the journey. But I've come to the conclusion that He doesn't want me to build an arc; he wants me to set out over the sea and possibly go through the 40 days in the wilderness before He shows me the promised land.

I've just about completed the first draft of the first of 5 volumes in a crime novel. I've met someone with whom I plan to collaborate on a screen play for a powerful story she has written, and things are falling in place for me to take an editing course from one of the premier writing schools in America, which will help my future career track.

I'm still on track, and it feels great.

Sunday, October 20, 2013

For Everything There Is a Season


Why should it be so difficult to figure out what you’re supposed to do?

Some people sail through life, seemingly without a care in the world. They pursue a career that they enjoy and through which they earn a decent living. They enjoy their family and friends, root for the winning team, and marry the right person. I say “seem” because no one can really know what lurks in the hearts of men. But at least, by all outward appearances, they are enjoying some sense of fulfillment in what they are doing. And more, they seem to be following the correct course for their life.

Others of us, we seem to be constantly swimming upstream, fighting the current, trying to avoid the flotsam coming toward us, wondering what the hell this is all about. We try to listen to the voice of God, to discover some direction in the cacophony of signals coming at us, to find some indication of which path to take, where to find some sense of fulfillment in careers, relationships, in life.

I find myself presented with a choice, and I have no idea which direction to go: About a year ago, upon returning from Spain, I took a project management contract that turned out not to be as promised, so I found another. That company was going through a massive reorganization due to a buy-out and I, along with all the other contract project managers, was laid off. I was fortunate to find another contract in two weeks, but that, again, recently came to an abrupt end. My skill set just didn’t fulfill the requirements of that particular job. As Forrest Gump said, “It happens.”

The fact is, I don’t even want to work as a project manager. I only do it because that’s where I earn the most money and I feel the need to put some of that away for the future.

Which brings me to the point of all this: Am I following God’s plan by continuing to work in a role I neither enjoy, nor suits my temperament and skills? Or am I displaying a lack of faith by doing so? Should I chuck it all? Step out of the boat to join Jesus on the water, accepting as pure faith that I won’t sink and drown?

Alternately, maybe I’m being given these contracts, unfitting as they may be, so that I can put some money in the bank and then pursue what I’d rather do at some point in the future without the financial Sword of Damocles hanging over my head. Maybe I'm exercising my faith by slogging through each month, watching my countdown calendar, which today shows 76 weeks remaining before I leave for the next pilgrimage that I so desperately want to begin.
For everything there is a season.

But what season is this?

Monday, October 14, 2013

Esatto boots

I just got my boots back from Alex at Esatto Custom Boots. In case you haven't been reading all my posts to date (and a big "Thank you!" to all who have), I had a pair of custom-fitted boots made for my next pilgrimage. (Barcelona to Rome) The best off-the-shelf boots I could find still didn't fit well enough and my feet were miserable during the last walk to Santiago de Compostela. (I can't pass up the opportunity to plug my memoir, Sauntering to Santiago, in e-book format at Amazon.com and all other e-book outlets.)

Getting back to the topic of this post, if you order a pair of boots from Esatto and aren't in or near Battleground, WA to visit his shop personally for fitting, Alex will send you a fit kit so you can measure your foot in all the dimensions necessary to allow him to create lasts of your feet from which he'll make a perfect-fitting pair of shoes or boots for you. However, when I measured my feet I had forgotten to take into account that they would swell and lengthen slightly over the course of a thousand-mile walk. (Again, for those who haven't been reading this blog, I've mentioned that after walking an average of 26 kilometers a day for several weeks, it's normal for one's feet to swell and even lengthen about a half size.)

Alex was kind and patient enough to adjust my boots not once, but twice. They now seem perfect. I have plenty of room in the toe box for the unusual width of that part of my feet and there is enough length, just enough I think, to allow for the increased length of my feet after a couple hundred miles of daily walking.

I've found a helpful web site for the next pilgrimage, Confraternity of Pilgrims to Rome - http://www.pilgrimstorome.org.uk/. I haven't found information there about the route from Arles, France to Vercelli, Italy, but it's a good site for those who are looking for information on the traditional route from Canterbury Cathedral. I'll start in Barcelona, for personal reasons, and walk North to the Camino de Santiago route that begins in Arles, joining that in Montpellier and then walk it in reverse to Arles. From Arles I have a guidebook that will get me to Vercelli where I'll pick up the normal Via Francigena route South to Rome.

All the while walking in a pair of boots that actually fit my feet! I can't wait to get started.

Friday, October 11, 2013

Here We Go Again


I was talking with my sister recently and mentioned how much I missed the Camino and wanted to make a pilgrimage to Rome. She said that, of course I missed the Camino; Everyone likes being on vacation, but that’s not real life.

Maybe so, but it’s not as though I’ve just returned from vacation and can’t wait to take another. It’s more than that. It’s as though I’ve finally found the life I want to live: walking, seeing the world, writing. Maybe not all the time, but much of the time. It’s a need; I’m drawn to start walking again, to being a pilgrim.

They say, “Do what you love and you’ll never work a day in your life.” I’d love to take that seriously. But how can I pay my living expenses walking around the world? I enjoy writing about my experiences, but to date, I can’t say I’m getting near the New York Times best seller list with Sauntering to Santiago. (Also at Amazon, Barnes and Noble, Sony, and other e-book distributors)Maybe, someday, enough people will buy it to allow me to pay a month’s rent from sales. Marketing is vital to selling anything, but a marketer I am not. Heck, I don’t even have a Facebook page and I certainly don’t “tweet.” (I’m considering a Facebook page, but I refuse to tweet.)

But, life is nothing if not unpredictable. Who knows what tomorrow will bring. Yesterday I was planning a revised budget, after paying off my medical bills (appendectomy) and car repair bills (brakes, including new calipers all around and other sundry repairs that a 100,000-mile car needs). Then, this afternoon, I got laid off once again. I didn’t have anywhere near the technical knowledge required for the job I was in, but it took a couple of months for my boss and me to realize that I wasn’t going to get up to speed enough to be productive any time soon. So we decided to part company amicably.

I’m not sure what I’ll do now. I’m ambivalent about taking another project management position, but as I’ve said before, that’s where I can add the most value (translated: make the most money). Even if I were to cut my wait for the next pilgrimage from the currently planned 78 weeks from now, I still couldn’t start until next Spring. As each day passes, that’s sounding more and more like a good idea. So then, I only have to figure out what to do for the next 6 months. I wonder if I can find a 6-month contract.

When one door closes another opens, right?

Thursday, October 10, 2013

Finally available at Amazon.com

More coming this weekend, but here's a brief note...

Sauntering to Santiago, the revised, enlarged, and (hopefully) improved memoir of my Camino and Granada experience is now available for Kindle at Amazon.com. The rough draft was this blog, but there were a surprising number of corrections to make, and I added a few more chapters. 

It's also available at Barnes and Noble, Sony, Kobo, Apple, Diesel, Page Foundry, and Baker and Taylor. Unfortunately, I've only published an e-book version. But, it's only US$1.99 - cheaper than a grande Starbucks drip coffee! What a bargain!

http://www.amazon.com/Sauntering-Santiago-Pilgrims-Journey-ebook/dp/B00FNXC6TM/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1381423418&sr=1-1&keywords=demar+southard



The view from my desk


Thursday, October 3, 2013

Spanish Lessons

It's been a pretty boring time in the Pacific Northwest, where I find myself these days. Not much to write about. I get up and go to work every weekday, I take a guitar lesson every other Saturday, and I've begun sitting in on flamenco cante (song) lessons on Sundays. I might write something in the future about trying to learn flamenco guitar as an old guiri (a pejorative term for a tourist in Spain, usually referring to someone who might wear socks with sandals walking on the beach in plaid Bermuda shorts and a striped shirt.) But I'll save that for another time.

In the meantime, I thought I'd post an old essay I wrote after taking a three-week course in Spanish back in 2006.

Lessons in Learning: Spanish in Spain

Prelude: Preparation

From the time I was about eleven years old until graduating high school, a pair of reproduction paintings hung on my bedroom wall. One was of a finely-featured, dark-haired, beautiful flamenco dancer in a red dress. The other was a matador in his gold and red brocade uniform - his traje de luces – the cape flowing over the back of a fierce bull as it charged past him, horns just inches from the matador's torso. Whether I put these pictures on my wall because I was already genetically inclined toward Spain and all things Spanish, or alternately, the constant image of lovely Spanish ladies and brave matadors planted a seed and fertilized it for more than a half dozen years, I'll never know. Thirty five years later, it's a moot point. I was addicted to Spain, Spanish culture, and the Spanish language. They say the first step toward recovery is recognizing that you have a problem. The only problem is, I have no desire to recover.

A ten-year relationship with a woman of Spanish heritage and a native-speaker of Spanish fanned the flames. I watched in admiration and adoration as she danced Flamenco. Music of Gypsy cantaors  and tocaors – singers and guitarists – was usually playing on the stereo in our house. DVD's and videos of flamenco performances and her dance classes seemed to be a continuous loop on our television. I attended flamenco parties with her where almost everyone spoke Spanish. I heard her speaking Spanish to her family. Naturally, I absorbed the Spanish language as a child learns the language of his parents.

And pigs can fly.

When we eventually parted ways, I realized I had squandered ten years that I could have been learning Spanish with the opportunity to speak on a regular basis – a necessity for becoming fluent in any language. No problem, I thought, I'll just buy a course on CD and a book or two and learn it on my own. I found Barron's Spanish for Reading to be a very good source for self-directed study. But after going through it twice, I found I could begin to make sense of the written language, but couldn't follow a word of whatever soap operas or news programs were on Univision. Obviously, I needed to turn up the thermostat on my study habits. I enrolled in an adult education class at my local community college. After a semester of three hours of class a week, but no one to speak Spanish with for the other 165 hours, I still had made relatively little progress.

I had spent two weeks in Spain with my ex-girlfriend where she was the tour guide and I was the dumb (in both senses of the word) hanger-on. A return trip to Spain took on the importance in my mind of another breath of air. But that old joke weighed heavily on my mind: 
What do you call someone who speaks three languages? Trilingual. 
What do you call someone who speaks two languages? Bilingual. 
What do you call someone who speaks one language? American. 

I was not going to go back to Spain as an arrogant, ignorant American, expecting everyone else to speak English or try to understand my hand gestures and pidgin-Spanish. It was time to get serious about learning this language. It was time for total immersion – language school in Spain.

Finding a language school is no problem. They're about as common in Spain as Starbucks in Seattle. Googling "language schools spain" returned enough results to satisfy myself that I had given the matter due diligence. Deciding on which school was the challenge.

Having a daughter in a private college and trying to get back on my feet after a rough few years of un- and under-employment after the dot-com crash in Seattle, I was not a "man of means." Price was important. But competition for the tourist dollar (or pound, or euro, or zlotny, etc.) serves to keep prices fairly competitive. Likewise, the cost of lodging as a percentage of the total package doesn't help much with the decision making. The difference between living in a hostel or having a private room with a bath is significant, but again, among the offerings at the various schools, a hostel costs what a hostel costs; a private room costs what a private room costs.

So, how to decide?

My goal was to learn the language. I wanted class time and teaching by native speakers. On this trip I wasn't going to be a tourist or a vacationer. I was a student. I narrowed my search to those schools that looked like they were for serious language students. Then the big question: Which city? From my previous experience in Spain, I knew one city was as different from another in Spain as Shreveport is from Los Angeles. I knew Southern Spain was where I wanted to go, but that still left a significant number of choices. I had read a lot about Spanish history, that being one of my interests, and decided the last Spanish kingdom of the Moors would be where I would go, the land of the Alhambra, the burial place of Ferdinand and Isabella, the high desert and mountains that I love so much – Granada. Now my choices were narrowed significantly.

Next consideration: I'm going far, far away to a place where I don't speak the language. Spending a lot of money for classes, lodging, and airfare – all paid up front. If I choose an unscrupulous, fly-by-night school, I'm likely to be up a creek without a paddle. How did I finally choose my school? Simple: I ordered some brochures and went to the school that had the most expensively produced, four-color brochure; the one that said, "We've been here, and we're going to continue to be here. We're not cheap, but you get what you pay for."



Act One: – The Decision


I made the right decision: Don Quijote, with several schools not only in Spain but also Mexico and Peru. The school has a residence (dormitory) where you can have a separate room with bath, shared apartment style living, or they'll arrange a home stay. Although the students I met in the "home stay" situation were normally in a multiple-bedroom apartment occupied by a single woman who is renting bedrooms as a way to make extra money. Some rarely saw their host, others spent a lot of time with her. You pays your money and you takes your chances, but I didn't hear of anyone having a less than pleasant experience with the home stay arrangement.

My own experience in the residence, however, was somewhat different. Admittedly, I was nearing what used to be middle-age. (I think the government has increased that to prepare the path to further increases in the Social Security retirement age, but I digress.) Most of the students at the residence were in their 20's and somewhat more inclined to the night life than I was. My second floor room window opened into a center patio, across from the first floor kitchen. In Spain, the bars stay open all night. Heck, the party doesn't even start until around midnight. Where do people go when they're through drinking at 3:00 a.m.? Back to the residence, of course, and straight to the kitchen for breakfast. The signs that indicate the kitchen is closed after midnight are a gentle reminder, obviously intended only for the old farts in the residence. The noise was not welcome and on my next trip back, I'll rent an apartment.

The school itself was about a kilometer from the residence, which was an easy morning walk through the "newer" part of old Granada, existing only from Renaissance times, as opposed to the old part of town, dating from the middle ages, previously occupied by the Moors and Jews before they were evicted from Spain in 1492 by Ferdinand and Isabella. (One of the biggest mistakes in Spanish political history. But again, I digress.) Upon arriving at the residence by taxi from the airport, provided by the school, I was given a map of the city with the route to the school clearly shown. As it was only around 7:00 P.M. and much too early to go to bed, even though I was dead tired after traveling over 24 hours from downstate Illinois, I decided to walk to the school to make sure I would know where it was in the morning. Map in hand, I set out, a stranger in a strange land, but feeling strangely at home.


Act Two: Arrival


Street names in Granada, as in Sevilla and Madrid, the only two cities in Spain with which I'm slightly familiar, are on tiles on the sides of buildings. Sometimes you can find them, sometimes not. Sometimes they are covered by scaffolding and tarps for the ubiquitous remodeling that seems to be the national pass time. Sometimes they are covered by other signs put up for who-knows-what-reason. A joke? A type of vandalism? Preparation for a change of street name? On my next trip I'll find out. No matter. I couldn't find all the street signs but my pictorial map had major landmarks on it, mostly cathedrals and government buildings, so I felt confident in finding my way to the school and back to the residence.

After about an hour and a half of wandering, my confidence appeared more than slightly misplaced. I hadn't found the school, and couldn't tell where I was on the map. The sun had set and I hadn't brought my reading glasses so I couldn't read the streets on the map (remember the "old-fartness" noted earlier). No problem. After all, my map had landmark pictures and I could tell right where I was -- next to a large cathedral. And there on the map, was the Cathedral of Granada. All I had to do was orient the map with the Cathedral and start walking to find my way back to the residence.

Most of the streets in that part of the city are little more than an alley between multi-storied buildings. I'm sure a horse could traverse them comfortably. In most of them, two horses might even pass each other without much trouble. In nice weather, as it was during May while I was there, paseo, going for a walk, is how families and friends pass the evening. People dress up for a stroll through town to see friends, or just spend time with others talking, having ice cream, sharing a glass of Rioja wine and a plate of tapas at the bar: basically being Spanish. The young people dress to be seen and there is no lack of beautiful Spanish women. I'm sure there are handsome young men with the women, but to be honest, I don't remember seeing them. What I do remember is thinking, "These people are, in somewhat gentle, PC terms, height-weight proportionate!" I thought of the flights from Chicago to Brussels to Barcelona to Granada (yes, I took the round-about route and saved mucho dinero!). On each leg as I got further from the U.S., and there were fewer Americans and more Europeans, I noticed the people got thinner and thinner. It's not as if everyone is slim and trim in Spain. They're not. But based on my observation of people and eating out almost every meal for three weeks in Granada, I don't think the "super size" concept has caught on in Spain. I hope it never does. Maybe a paseo every evening helps too.

I continued walking and, what do you know, came to the cathedral again. No, I wasn't walking in circles and it I realized it wasn't the cathedral, it was just the average Catholic church from the 17th or 18th century. I had thought that the church I was near, the largest edifice I had seen for some time and certainly larger than any church I was used to in the States, was the Cathedral of Granada. Wrong. In a town of a quarter million people, where, in centuries past, everyone had to be Catholic, and everyone had to attend Mass on Sunday morning to show that they were obviously Catholic (the Inquisition watched for anyone who didn't demonstrate enough Catholicism), there had to be a lot of churches, and they had to be enormous. I was still lost in Granada. It was now completely dark, I spoke very little Spanish, I was dead tired, and I had no idea where I was except in beautiful, historic Granada, Andalucía, España. It was an exhilarating feeling. I'd wanted to be in Spain for decades, as long as I can remember, and here I was. The fact that I had no idea where I was or how to ask directions, even if I had known the address of the residence, was of no import whatsoever. I was walking the same streets Queen Isabella walked before anybody but the Vikings and Native Americans even knew my country existed. Narrow, winding streets presented a kaleidoscope of history and architecture everywhere I turned. I had no fear of any person, sensing an inexplicable feeling of personal safety. Granada. Spain. I was finally here.

I eventually found my way back to the residence around 11:00 P.M., and even found the school without any problem the next morning. Maybe a good night's sleep helped me to think more clearly. Possibly the light of day, or the fact that I had my reading glasses with me and could read the tiny print on the map. At any rate, the school was right where the map said it was, in a four-story building on a narrow street near the Ribera del Genil - the bank of the Genil River that runs through Granada.


Act Three: The City


Spanish cities are noisy, and Granada is no exception. The Gran Via, or Avenida Colon (it carries both names), and the centuries-old buildings along it near the residence were undergoing major reconstruction and remodeling. Several building fronts were covered with steel scaffolding and the ever-present tarps for dust abatement. The street and sidewalks were being torn up in several places to lay conduit and drain pipes. The sound of jackhammers and the whine of two-cycle mopeds was constant. Still, the new faces on the buildings that had been completed were beautiful works of craftsmanship and décor that is never seen in the States. I couldn’t wait to go back to see the completion of the restorations - the buildings brought back to their 17th and 18th century splendor. Time takes its toll on everything, but Granada is ensuring that the majesty of this Renaissance city lives on.

Classes at Don Quijote  are separated into 6 levels to serve those who know absolutely nothing about the language, to those who come to study the philosophical underpinnings of Spanish classical literature, and everyone in between. After a few years of attempting to learn the language through osmosis, I found myself, disappointingly, only at level two. I had learned enough to ask what time it was, and understand the answer if the respondent didn't speak too quickly. I could say I want fish please or I don't want milk. But my vocabulary was woefully inadequate to say 95% of what I was thinking, and my grasp of past and future, simple and compound tenses, the subjunctive and imperative was approximately equal to, or slightly less than the average two-year-old's  grasp of his native language. Even at level two, I was challenged. 

Classes were from 9:00 a.m. to 1:00 p.m. with a half hour break in the middle, five days a week. I had signed up for three weeks – my entire vacation for the year. My classmates all spoke English, even though they were from Holland, Romania, Switzerland, France, and other countries. (There were, of course, a few from England and the States also.) This was unfortunate because it allowed me to speak English outside of class, the one thing I did not want to do. I wanted to be forced to communicate in Spanish all the time; to get as much bang for the buck as possible. Total forced immersion. I found that the soul is willing but the flesh is weak. After three and a half hours of struggling to understand the instructor and speak a foreign language, the ability to actually communicate a complex thought was like a swim in a cool oasis after crossing the Sahara. After several decades of being able to speak fluently in past, present, perfect, subjunctive, and all other tenses and actually express complex thoughts and emotions, being relegated to the realm of "I like pizza" and "Please, may I have another glass of water" was frustrating to say the least.

Classes are taught entirely in Spanish, even for the beginner classes. This is frustrating for some, but is necessary and proper. With students from any country in a class, explaining anything in one student's native language is necessarily going to leave others out. Additionally, the instruction is advertised as being "total immersion." You're thrown into the pool and you learn to swim as best you can. Nothing terrible is going to happen to you, other than a serious trial of your ability to handle frustration. If you choose to spend a few weeks at Don Quijote or any other immersion language school, you have to go with the attitude that you're going to get as much as you can from the experience of living in another language and culture. Mental and emotional preparation is key. Everything is different; comparisons are invalid.

The first day was as expected - taking care of administrivia, dividing the new students into the appropriate classes based on tests taken on-line prior to arrival, and the first class. I don't know if the other students felt they were as fortunate with their teachers as I was; maybe they're all that good at Don Quijote. But the teachers I was fortunate to be assigned, Laura and Montse for vocabulary and grammar respectively, must have been sent from heaven. There is a skill and a talent to being able to explain the meaning of words and grammar of another language to non-speakers using only that language. Fifty percent mime, fifty percent actor, fifty percent magician, and one hundred percent patient and understanding, Laura and Montse were unbelievably adept at teaching Spanish to raw recruits. I can't say it wasn't frustrating and mentally and emotionally exhausting, but I wouldn't have it any other way. The classes could have cost twice as much and I would have considered them a bargain for these two wonderful teachers.

After the first class the new students were taken on a walking tour of the city where we learned among other things:

•There are more pubs in Spain per capita than any other European country, but fewer alcoholics per capita than any other. At least until the current generation, it was very socially unacceptable and considered very low-class to appear to be even slightly inebriated or out of control (borracho) in public: Honor is important above all. It is also considered poor manners - mal educada - to drink without eating, thus you will always be served appetizers, or tapas, when you order a drink in a pub.
•There is very little violent crime in Granada. (My feelings of safety the first night were well-founded.) You have to always be aware of the possibility of a purse snatcher or a pick pocket in the crowd, but that is about all. I wandered around the business area and the Albaicin all hours of the night and early hours of the morning and never had the slightest problem or even felt that I might.
•The central business area dates from the Renaissance era, after Ferdinand and Isabella evicted the Muslims and Jews. The Albaicin, across the river from the Alhambra is from the middle ages and was the home of the Muslims; The Realejo, the area just south of the Alhambra, was the Jewish quarter. The houses and other buildings are still standing and provide many interesting walks through the narrow streets, with whitewashed walls and tile roofs, still providing residences for many of Granada's population. You can also find hostels, tea houses (teterías), and restaurants and if you're lucky enough to happen upon it, the last home of Max Moreau which is a charming little house and now a free museum. If you have a good map you can find it at Camino Nuevo de San Nicol, 12.
•Columbus' second voyage was financed with proceeds of the property of the evicted Jews and Muslims which was either confiscated outright or bought from them at fire sale prices as they were forced to leave by the court of the Catholic Monarchs and then resold to wealthy supporters of the crown. This is truly a sad period of Spanish history and caused untold grief and death among the thousands of evictees, not to mention the loss of great talent, knowledge, and entrepreneurship from which Spain did not recover until the twentieth century. In fact, in my humble opinion, no matter how much economic, cultural, and social progress Spain may make, the losses of those four hundred years can never be recovered.

I have to admit one disappointment with my experience with language school in Spain. I had hoped to meet some locals and learn more about everyday life in Andalucia and possibly start a friendship with a Spaniard or two. What happened instead was that I developed some friendships with people from Holland, England, Romania, and a couple of people from the U.S. who were also studying at the school. Naturally, students spend time together in class, all of us unfamiliar with our surroundings, to say nothing of the language, and we tended to spend social time together also. The opportunity to interact with Spaniards did not present itself easily, and admittedly, I am not an outgoing person, so I left after three weeks without a single Spanish friend. The one resident of Granada I met and developed somewhat of a friendship with, a very warm, friendly, and helpful waiter at a restaurant near the school, turned out to be a foreign medical student from Brazil.

That's not to say that I didn't meet other people. I even found a great line to use when I wanted to meet a woman, however, inexplicably, it hasn't worked as well since I've returned home. Normally I'd be in a crowd waiting for a flamenco performance to start (do not, repeat, do not miss the flamenco if you go to Spain), and I'd turn to the woman next to me and say, "Do you speak English?" If she did, we were off and running, having a wonderful conversation. If not, and she spoke Spanish, I would stumble through in Spanish as best I could. During my entire stay there, I didn't meet one person who wasn't very friendly.

Permit me to take a small detour. I can't not talk about flamenco. After all, wasn't it the picture of the flamenco dancer on my bedroom wall that drew me to Spain in the first place? When you go to Granada or Sevilla or Madrid or any other Spanish city or town, you will see advertisements for flamenco shows everywhere. Go! Some are much better than others, but if you haven't experienced flamenco you won't know the difference until you've seen several shows. In jazz, there is a difference between Kenny G and Miles Davis (please excuse my obvious bias against Kenny G.). In flamenco, you'll find a similar gulf between tourist shows and the grittiness and passion of a group of artists in a small venue where the sweat flies off the bailaora as she dances and you can hear the sound of the tocaor’s fingernails on the guitar strings. The first week I was in Granada I bought a ticket to a flamenco extravaganza on the top of the Sacramonte above the Albaicin. Taking a cab to the venue, I arrived to a crowd of tour buses in front of a two level theater packed with what appeared to be a tour arranged by AARP.(No offense intended to the elderly – I'm getting there myself.) Above us on the second floor another show was on-going with the sounds of flamenco dancers rumbled through the ceiling. The performers were good, very good in fact, but there's much more to flamenco than skillful footwork and guitar playing. Flamenco is best served intimate. It's friends or extended family or even clan rivals coming together to sing and play and dance as an expression of a gypsy soul and the experience of centuries of persecution, prejudice, and homelessness. It's the Blues sung in a Spanish dialect. It's playful, it's sorrowful, it's temptation and sex. It's dance, song, drama, and the soul laid bare. In a large venue it's commercial and two dimensional. If you're a fan of jazz, try to imagine Coleman Hawkins arranged for Muzak. That's flamenco in a tourist show.

Take some of those same performers, let them dance, sing, and play in a tiny, smoke-filled pub, the audience sitting and standing shoulder to shoulder, and you have a perfect educational juxtaposition of commercialism and art. In fact that's what happened the following evening. I happened on a pub that didn't even open until 10:00 at night. (This is normal for Spain. Performances were at 10:30 and 1:00 a.m.) There was to be a flamenco performance with two of the male dancers, one of the singers and one of the guitarists from the previous night at the Sacramonte. ¡Ole! and ¡Hasa! and other exclamations of encouragement and sheer excitement were heard constantly. I'm sure there were some tourists in the audience; I was there, after all. But for the most part this was a performance for the cognoscenti, for people who knew when to vocally encourage, when to applaud, who knew the difference between a solea  and a rumba. The performers fed off the excitement of the audience; the audience, in turn was energized by the passion of the performers. This was not the first time I had experienced this kind of magic, as I had attended a performance in Sevilla a few years previous that had a similar effect on me. But when it's this good, it's an other-worldly experience. Good flamenco is tantric.

I went to Granada to study Spanish, but the truth is, I didn't study enough, I wasn't as diligent with my homework as I should have been. But it's not my fault. Really. Class was from 9:00 a.m. to 1:00 p.m., with a half hour break between vocabulary and grammar sessions. Breakfast before class was a café con leche (a very small but wonderful latté) and a croissant. By the time class was over, we were famished and could think of nothing but lunch, which was always taken at an outdoor café with a view of some 17th century cathedral or other beautiful buildings, the Mediterranean air of Southern Spain, and just the pure joy of being there. One thing I learned after spending too much for food during the first week in Spain, is the position of a waiter is normally not that of a part-time student trying to make extra money, and tips are not the norm, nor expected. The small group of people from class would decide on a restaurant, sit, and be given menus before too long. About five minutes later the waiter (almost always male) would take our order, bring drinks immediately and food as soon as it was ready. So far, all was normal for an American tourist. But then, we didn't see the waiter again unless we called him, and sometimes getting his attention was difficult. We could sit for an hour with a small beer and a plate of tapas and never be bothered by a waiter asking if we would like something else. We could have spent the entire afternoon taking a table in a busy restaurant without the slightest inclination that we were expected to order more drinks or food. Finally, when we were ready to leave, we would ask for the bill, pay and leave. We learned that one never asks for, for example, a drink refill and the bill. First, there are no free refills in Spain. Second, if you want another drink, you order it, and later you ask for the bill. This doesn't vary in my experience. I observed a friend trying to ask for another café con leche AND the bill at the same time and it confused the poor waiter terribly. He couldn't figure out if my friend wanted more coffee or the bill. Certainly she wouldn't ask for both! My friend ended up getting the bill but no more coffee. You may order more food or request the bill. But not both at the same time.

After lunch it was time to go back to the residence for a siesta. This is one custom that proves the Spanish have it all over the Americans and Northern Europeans. After only three weeks in Spain, I found it incomprehensible that I should be expected to go the whole afternoon without a siesta. Completely uncivilized. ¡Qué horrible! After siesta there was more sightseeing to do in any direction I might choose to walk. I enjoyed mostly going up into the Albaicin, where every turn revealed a beautiful courtyard or building or spectacular view of Granada as I climbed higher and higher toward Sacramonte.

If you get the chance to be out late (by U.S. standards, not Spanish), say, until 3:00 or 4:00 in the morning drinking and dancing, leave the disco and give yourself another hour to experience a still, peaceful Granada. There will still be some people about and a few cars on the road, but the whine of the mopeds, the sound of cars and buses, the construction noise will have abated. Should you be fortunate enough to take your paseo under a full moon, the buildings will be illuminated by the same natural blue light you would have seen when King Ferdinand and Queen Isabella decided to take over the Alhambra as their "home away from home." Stand silently in the plaza in front of the Cathedral and look up. The sight of her spires silhouetted against the blue-moon sky, the sounds of the night, the scents of plant life and building-life (for they seem to come to life in the moonlight) can be delicious and wondrous. At this time of day you can experience Granada as a resident would have seen it three-hundred years ago. In the summer the stone buildings will still radiate the heat they absorbed during the day. Stand close to one and feel its warmth. Zigzag through narrow streets slowly and quietly and you may see a ghost of a ship's captain looking for prospective colonists willing to take the risk of travel to the New World.

All is not peace, contentment, and beauty in Granada. One will not be able to ignore the problem of graffiti everywhere. If it doesn't move, someone will paint on it. I have to admit, I did see two paintings worthy of a canvas, but most of it is straight out of the New York ghettos. I have no basis for any informed opinion for why graffiti should be so prevalent in Spain - I noticed the same problem in Sevilla and Madrid, although not to the same extent - but my guess is that the socialism in Spain and Europe negates a sense of private property. Therefore, any surface is fair game for the tagger's spray can. Even the cathedrals were not spared this defilement. This is one of the few things I had to try to ignore in order to thoroughly enjoy my Spanish experience. Some things just can't be explained and the traveler has to accept.


Postlude: If You Go


If you decide to study Spanish at Don Quijote or any other full immersion school in Spain, prepare yourself to meet uncountable wonderful people, who, like you, are adventurous in spirit, desirous of learning, well-read, worldly, conversant in many topics, and generally a hell of a lot of fun to be around. It takes a special kind of person to want to spend a hard-earned vacation in language school, and the camaraderie among the students is instant and strong. You'll find no boring people among your classmates - everyone has a story or two to tell and the only problem in the whole experience is where to sneak in a few hours a night to get some sleep so you can concentrate on tomorrow's lesson. Go ahead and plan to spend a few extra dollars (euros) on a cell phone so you can keep in touch with your new-found friends while you're wandering the city. Arranging for the evening's activities after your siesta is difficult when everyone goes their separate ways to whatever accommodations they've arranged if you don't have a cell phone. The small price will greatly enhance your enjoyment of Granada.

I'm not a savvy traveler by any means. I've been to Spain twice for a total of five weeks, some other Western European countries once many years ago, Manila and Canada more recently. But I've learned a little and I love to give advice, so here goes. Mostly, I've learned to not compare. Looking for a roll of strapping tape my last day in Granada was an experience. In the States, I'd go to Wal-Mart or any grocery store and find what I was looking for. I couldn't find the Wal-Mart in Granada (is it possible they're not there yet?) and the grocery store sold (what else?) food. Period. I knew some kind of shop would sell strapping tape. But what kind? And where was it? I never did find the tape I was looking for. I settled on some rope from a hardware store. I never got free refills on my coffee. I learned to eat a "continental breakfast" for breakfast and not eat dinner until 9:00 or 10:00 at night. I didn't learn to stay up until 3:00 a.m. dancing and still be in class at 9:00 in the morning, but I'm old. Most of my compatriots seemed to catch on to that custom very easily.


Leave your habits and expectations at home. Spanish society and customs were old and engrained many centuries before the United States was a twinkle in Thomas Jefferson's eye. Some of the greatest philosophers of the middle ages came from Spain, as did the greatest novel ever written, Don Quijote, by Miguel de Cervantes. Flamenco music and dance is a cornucopia for all the senses. The Alhambra is one of the seven wonders of the ancient world. When you go to Spain, whether to learn the language or just absorb the culture and history, leave your habits and expectations at home. Let Spain overwhelm you. There's plenty of time to go back to your old ways, if you can tear yourself away when it's time to return home.

Saturday, September 21, 2013

Two Steps Forward, Ten Steps Back


It’s been one of those weeks. Normally, since I returned from Spain and began my work life again, it’s been two steps forward and one step back. My only goal is to save enough money to enable myself to live for a year without income when I return to Spain in 2015. After my walk from Barcelona to Rome I’ll return to Granada and work at finding students to tutor in English, and hopefully, by that time I’ll have developed at least a small business in editing and proofreading. Maybe I’ll even have sold a few books. But I want to have the resources, the money, to last a year without feeling under the pressure of poverty.

But here I am, 25% of the way through my self-imposed exile and I’ve hardly managed to save little money compared with what I'll need. I was falling short of my plan, but I finally accepted that my budget had been a little on the frugal side. So, I adjusted. Then my short time of unemployment bit into the plan a little more, but I figured, such is life. I kept plodding along with less in savings, but still saving.

Then, this week, I had to shell out $1,500 for my car and a day later received the bill for my portion, after insurance, of my recent appendectomy – about $3,500. And all the bills aren’t in yet. Two steps forward and about ten steps back.

I have to admit, I’m more than a little depressed and angry. Angry at what, I don’t know. It’s an adverb – it doesn’t necessarily require an object. I know it’s stupid. I know it doesn’t do me any good. It’s counterproductive, but I’m not always in control of my emotions. What can I say? I’m human.

I’m looking at my countdown calendar, which says at the 80-weeks-to-go page,

Jesus said, “I tell you the truth when I say that the heavenly realm is within you. Only when you have established the divine realm within, and overcome the demons of doubt and fear, will you discern the key to the establishment of the realm of the Eloheim on the physical plane.” (The Gospel of Thomas)

I’ll think about that, concentrate on those words this week, try to overcome my doubt and fear, and see if I can climb out of the pit of depression and anger that I’m feeling. All I want is to get back on the road, to start walking. But there’s a time and a place for everything, and I guess the time for that is still 80 weeks away. Who knows what can happen in that amount of time.

I won’t go with the resources I had planned, but I’ll go, come hell or high water.

80 more weeks.

Tuesday, September 17, 2013

Barnes and Noble

Quick update: Sauntering to Santiago is now available for download to your Nook at Barnes and Noble

Click on the book title or go to

http://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/sauntering-to-santiago-demar-southard/1116890477?ean=2940045254892

I hope you enjoy it.

P.S. I'm hoping to get the book translated into Spanish. It will take a while, but if you prefer Spanish, I'll have it for you hopefully by year end.

Thanks for reading!
DeMar

Monday, September 16, 2013

Moving on



My countdown calendar shows 81 weeks remaining until I leave for the next pilgrimage – Barcelona to Rome. My equipment is all prepared – I’ve replaced whatever I’ll need and was lost in the mail, as I related in an earlier post. I had given away my one-man tent in Lleída, figuring correctly that I wouldn’t need it on the Camino de Santiago. But, looking at the route between Barcelona and where I’ll join the Via Francigena in France it looks like there might be some days where I won’t be able to make it to a town with a hostel or pension; something cheap enough for my budget, so I replaced the tent for nights I’ll have to make camp. 


When I was on the Camino de Santiago I didn’t write much, didn’t even think about writing a blog or a memoir after I’d completed it so I didn’t bring a PC and barely wrote in a journal. For the next trip, though, I’ll be writing a regular blog which I’ll make into an e-book later. Thus the need for a notebook PC. I was going to wait to buy a notebook PC, one that I could carry in my back pack, until close to the time I left to take advantage of lower cost and increased performance. But my old one was needed by someone else, so I decided to go ahead and buy a new one. I bought a Microsoft Surface. It’s only a little over 2 pounds (1 kilo) and has a four-hour battery life, or so they say. I found that if you have USB devices connected to it the battery life is significantly reduced. Windows 8 is taking some time to get used to, but I’ll adjust. 


I’m also on round two of adjustments to the custom hiking boots I bought from Esatto, LLC. Alex, the cobbler, has been very accommodating and is working with me to make sure I have a perfect fit. After the first adjustment they fit very well, but then I remembered that my feet actually lengthened after walking a few hundred miles so I’ve asked Alex to add 7mm to them. That will probably require major surgery and I can’t expect him to do that for free. After all, he made them to fit the specifications I gave him the first time. Such is life. It’s only money. (sigh) 


I’m trying to keep in shape, taking strenuous hikes in the Cascade and Olympic Mountains. I don’t get out enough, though, and I’m embarrassed to say I’m putting some weight back on. Thinking I’ll get rid of it between Barcelona and the border of France makes it easy to be lazy. Sitting in a chair at a desk all day doesn’t help either.


So, five days a week I’m back at work, trying not to think about how nice it will feel to be walking from town to town again. At least I have a window seat with a nice view.
 The view from my desk is actually spectacular some days, but I liked this one with the top of the Space Needle looking like a flying saucer.

P.S. Don't forget to check out Sauntering to Santiago, available in all e-book formats. Available at Smashwords.com, and soon available at Amazon, Barnes and Noble, Sony, and all other e-book distributors
 

Friday, September 13, 2013

Now available in e-book format

I've just published a revised, edited, and expanded version of my blog posts as a memoir in electronic format. It's available at Smashwords.com, https://www.smashwords.com/books/view/353142, or you can wait a week or so for it to be available to download directly to your e-reader from Amazon, Barnes and Noble, Sony, and all other e-book distributors.

Thanks for reading. I'll continue posts concerning the planning for the next pilgrimage to Rome. Work life and other writing projects have taken time from this blog, but I promise to return soon.

DeMar

Tuesday, August 27, 2013

It's Always Somethin'

In the last post I noted how my work and savings plan got sidetracked by a short period of unemployment. I was able to get back to work after just a couple of weeks so I dodged what could have been a substantial bullet.

But, as Rosanne Rosannadanna said, "It's always somethin'!" Last week I had a second bout in as many months of severe abdominal pain and decided I better go to a doctor to see what was going on. It turns out it was appendicitis so I missed another half week of work. I work on contract and get paid by the hour without any paid leave, so with the loss of work time and the high deductible in my health insurance, this little episode is going to take another chunk out of my planned savings.

I can't complain though; Surgery was on a Thursday morning and by Saturday morning I was already off the pain meds and I was back to work on Monday feeling fine. The wonders of modern medicine!

I still have 84 weeks to go, according to the plan, but even without the loss of work and the medical bills I was watching the trajectory of my savings fall somewhat short of what I had planned. Not that that's going to make me change my plans - they're cast in stone. I'll go with less money saved than I originally planned, but nothing will keep me from the next pilgrimage. The dream of setting out on the next saunter from the Mediterranean in Barcelona is the only thing that keeps me going these days.

I've purchased a couple of guides (actually two volumes of the same guide) to the Via Francigena that will take me from Arles, France to Vercelli, Italy (volume 1) and then from Vercelli to Rome (volume 2). Google maps will get me from Barcelona to Montpellier, where I can join the Camino de Santiago route that begins in Arles. Then I'll just walk the Camino in reverse to Arles and pick up the French offshoot of the Via Francigena from there. At Vercelli I'll join up with the more common route of the Via that begins at Canterbury, making its way through France and Switzerland.

In the mean time I try to keep in shape as much as possible with hikes in the mountains and walking where I need to go when practical. I've purchased a pair of custom boots from Esatto. (Esatto.biz) Alex, the cobbler, has already made some adjustments in the fit - even though I took careful measurements of my feet, including a tracing of the outline of both feet, the boots were not quiet long enough. My feet are funny that way. Alex adjusted them and now they're almost right, but still not quite long enough. They fit today, but I know from experience that my feet will lengthen after a couple hundred miles and I'll need extra length. (A podiatrist told me that this was common.) Everywhere else around my feet the boots feel great. They're snug with my extra thick wool socks but not tight and don't appear to rub anywhere or cause any pain points after taking several mountain hikes in them the way off-the-shelf boots always did. They're well made and look to be perfect for a walk to Rome and beyond.

Sunday, August 4, 2013

Back at it



Here I am, back in the great state of Washington, working and socking away as much as I can save to prepare for my next pilgrimage and another "attempt at the summit," moving to Spain to write, teach English, and become a permanent resident. 

All was going well. I was making steady progress toward my financial goals, even if not quite reaching the lofty goal I had set for myself. But life is full of surprises and you have to be able to roll with the punches. 

I had taken a contract project management position with T-Mobile, which has recently purchased itself from Deutsche Telecom. You know when something like that happens in the business world that major, wholesale changes are coming. Prepare yourself for a wild ride where you might just get thrown overboard. 

When you take a job on contract, a temporary position, you know that you have to be prepared to lose your job at any time. But even a temp, a contractor, expects to be treated fairly and with some measure of ethics. If I were to leave the job, fairness and ethics toward my employer dictates that I would give two weeks' notice. That's standard and common in these United States. 

T-Mobile, on the other hand, saw fit to call all the contract employees in the group in which I worked into a meeting and tell us that our services were no longer needed; don't bother coming into work tomorrow. No warning, no severance pay, nothing. This was three days after we had received word that our contracts had been renewed and budget was secure for the remainder of the year. I showed them, though. I switched my mobile phone service to AT&T. So there.

The good news is that I've been able to find another contract and have just completed my first week back at work at a substantially more challenging (read, stressful) job. A couple of weeks of unemployment put a little dent into the savings plan, but I think I can recover if I watch my budget. 

Well, life is what it is and every challenge brings an opportunity for growth. I'm looking forward to the change.

I’ve been able to take a few hikes to keep in shape and enjoy the breathtaking scenery that Northwest Washington those who make the effort to get out of the major cities. If I have to be absent from Spain, I suppose Washington is the second-best place to be.
Heading to the mountains for a hike: The view from the highway.